Friday 22 March 2013

Resolve N Solve


Resolve N Solve

Often we regret for not utilizing our abilities to the fullest resulting in a mediocre performance. We are disappointed with our performances. We lament for not giving our best and believe that we would have performed better if we had nurtured ourselves in much better way to accomplish a task. It is not unusual when most of us make promises to ourselves to change our life to make more meaningful. Every day we relent on something which really bothers us about our own personality and we vouch to change it. We make tall claims that we will soon bring some remarkable change in our lives. But sadly, the impetus stays with us for a brief period.

We make big resolutions. Every new year we have a big list of resolutions. But how far have we been successful in bringing the real change?  We show great interest in making big resolutions but are we really very serious about them? We observe that the intensity and the conviction slowly fade away.

The irony is we thoroughly understand what ails our lives and are equipped with the solution to resurrect our lives. We incessantly motivate ourselves to bring out the best. But that positive drive seems to be so ephemeral. What is it that is truly lacking from taking our conviction from the stage of simple motivation to the next stage of serious implementation?

Perhaps the seriousness or the conviction to stick to our new ideas, beliefs is missing some basic ingredient. Autobiographies of great men and women are full of rich experiences to be the source of our motivation. It is an enriching study to know how ordinary people have made extraordinary contributions in various fields. Most of them led simple lives and it is heartening to know in some cases how the most adamant and the culpable people have changed their lives. It is the sudden realization or the inner call which changes them completely to the core. Thus a phenomenal change can be seen in overall personality. Realization may seem to be sudden but it the result of the constant inner urge which compels the person to undergo a sweeping change.

Until unless we have a strong urge to really change no amount of oath-taking or making resolutions can do the magic. Every human being is endowed with great abilities. What ultimately matters is the conviction or the commitment with which we mould our character and personality. There are instances when an ordinary man with his persistence and firm faith brings about a perceptible and enviable change in life. Until motivation turns into realization there can’t be complete and abiding. 
 
 
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