Ideal Idol

Ideal Idol

No two individuals are the same. Every individual is so unique and different. But there are certain people who are class apart and stand out of the group. They make a great difference in lives of several people, by their humanistic ideas, values, principles and attitudes.

Sometimes by stroke of luck we meet certain people who later on change the dimensions of life by their magnificent character. Such people leave an indelible effect on others. Though they may not be present physically all the time, just mere recollection of the person and their attributes ushers a new light in to our lives. The true essence of a person is the personality which is not just the mere physical appearance. The exquisite qualities and attitude defines a person.

Truly the attitude makes the person remarkable. Very often we get attracted to certain people for no reason. They seem to have magical effect. They seem to generate a feeling which is beyond definition of words. Often we find people idolizing certain individuals, sometimes it sounds foolish. Though it is hard to believe, they are the people who can motivate us and also bestow the courage to dispel negative and crippling feelings that haunt us and sap us of our energies.

Whenever we are stuck or deeply troubled and when situations drive us to contemplate life, at times feeling of helplessness creeps in. These kinds of contemplations instead of enhancing the mental faculties drive us into negativity. It is at that crucial hour, we need a new breeze, motivation and enthusiasm to surge forward. It is at this point most of us need a fresh lease for life. More often this requirement of met by our beloved family, friends and most successfully by the people whom we idolize. They are our source of motivation and inspiration too. They occupy the most coveted place in our lives. We get psychologically attached to them.

It becomes really difficult to express our feelings or emotions towards such individuals whom we deeply respect. It is as if words have failed us. It is a situation, when we our heart is filled with so much of emotions that words literally throttle our mind. Finally it becomes so difficult to express what we are actually experiencing. Our ideas, thoughts are all filled with them, but we remain expressionless before them. It is not just love; it is innermost feeling of ecstasy we experience. As deep down somewhere we might have wished to have such a personality but failed to groom ourselves well. May be we didn’t have enough mental strength, willpower and to emerge as a vibrant and dynamic personality. So, when we supposedly meet such persons who have all the qualities which we always wanted to have—we are bound to have two strong emotions towards them. Since we objectively know that we don’t have the qualities which we deeply cherish, we always look at them with high esteem. Hence we also tend to revere and love them enormously. The other extreme aspect of it is envy.

Finally it is the beauty of the character which enchants and captivates us. If we experience the inner beauty of any person I am sure we are definitely going to fall in love with them.

 

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